Acting as a married man make Vince Vaughn is finally getting serious about settling down, Vince Vaughn who is engaged with Canadian realtor, Kyla Weber, on March 5, talks about kids and getting old.
“For the first time I’ve thought in a real way about wanting to have kids. I think as I’m getting older my priorities have shifted. I thought, ‘I want to have a family. I’m really ready for that. I really feel like that would be what life is calling me to do.”
Just like an expert in relationship, maybe based on his love stories with many women before, or just recites his character on his new movie.
“My character thinks he’s succeeding at what he’s been told life should be — getting a job, making money and raising his kids. But, where are you in that? You start to come in last because the priorities — the obligations of life are taking up your time and you forget to have fun with the person that you’re with. If you’re constantly solving problems with that person, you’re kind of dimming the flame. It’s important to go outside and lay a blanket down or go to a concert together. Just go have fun and go laugh with each other. Don’t try to solve everything. At least give yourself some fuel to get through all the obligations that couples all have to go through.”
For finding our soul-mate, we have to know about what we expect and wish for last forever relationship. The actor knows what he’s has been looking for in a woman, and two thing that is matter for him is a woman with good “sense of humor” and “friendship.”
“I like someone that can make me laugh. I like to laugh at stuff, especially myself. So, I think you have to be able to roll with life.”
“Life is always peaks and valleys, there’s going to be good times and bad times. So the biggest thing, for me, is having someone that makes you laugh and that you trust. When you’re younger, you kind of have your priorities in a different place, but as you get older — I think that becomes what’s most important, at least to me.”
He is a type of man that is not like house works, such “do dishes” but he’s “getting into it” as getting older. The Jennifer Aniston ex-boyfriend realized about the different in the way of thinking and seeing things between man and woman.
“I think there is a kind of dynamic with men and women, where guys are kind of less concerned with what color the curtains will be. They just want to sign off and have the conversation stop. And girls are kind of, like, making us feel it’s kind of an important decision and one we should weigh in on.”
Will ever men can understand women? The 39 years old actor who has two older sisters can” get along” with them just fine. But there’s a time that caused by “different way of communicating.”
“There’s always a little bit of a different way of communicating. It takes a while, sometimes. I think it’s one of the great challenges, one of the oldest games around, just trying to figure out how do you decipher what’s being said and what a woman really wants.”
Maybe we are women should change the way to express ourselves in front of men, instead of hoping for men understand about us, maybe we should saying what we want to men.
