Bethenny Frankel : “I’m Just A Lot Happier and More Grateful”

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    Bethenny Frankel shares her experience in her first time around the motherhood after the born of her child with husband, Jason Hoppy, a New York businessman on Parade. The beautiful child named Bryn Casey Hoppy born on Saturday, May 8th, she is a month earlier than expected.

    “My doctor says there are two reasons for premature labor: infection or ‘unknown reasons.’ I didn’t have an infection, so who knows? I’m an early riser. Maybe Bryn is too.”

    And Bryn is healthy baby girl that gained few pounds after birth, star of reality show Bethenny Getting Married? says, “Last we weighed her, she was 5 pounds 7 ounces. Now, I suspect she’s over 6 pounds.”

    Frankel shares more the feelings for becoming a mother for the first time.

    “I couldn’t love anything more! Bryn is a gem, the sweetest baby, and the greatest gift of my life. I love every minute of it — dark circles and all. I bow to all the breast-feeding mothers! I can do a lot of things, but breast-feeding is one of the greatest challenges.”

    Every first time mom has difficulties in breastfeeding, just adhere to breast-feeding the baby often.
    “After three weeks, I hit my stride. It is a lot of work, but very rewarding. I believe I will always be happy that I plowed through this process. I must come from strong nipple stock, because they’re faring very well.”

    Frankel and Bryn learning each other about the changing situation, being out from the comfort zone mommy’s tummy and facing the first time motherhood quite a big step for everyone.

    “She used to fuss every time, which made me feel like a failure, rejected, emotional — and sorry for her. Now she seldom fusses. We’ve got a groove going. I just love how happy it makes her.”

    The present of the baby is not taxing, she thoughts her life is “always lunacy. Just add breast-feeding, snuggles, pumping, longer time covering up dark, under-eye circles, diaper changes, and sponge baths.”

    Perhaps hired a nanny would help?
    “I need a good nanny — help! Right now, we have a baby nurse, which is a luxury. I really use it as a learning experience. I just want to absorb all of her knowledge. The same thing happened at the hospital. I approached it like ‘Baby University.'”

    Having another “baby” to be premiered on Bravo, Bethenny Getting Married?, on June 10th, a day after her first baby turned one month old, she says, “My two ‘babies’ were born at around the same time. Bryn told me she came early so she could watch Bethenny Getting Married? with mommy.”

    And discussing the possibility to see Bryn in any of the episodes, she explains Bryn as a “woman with few words.”
    “Bryn makes an appearance in a few scenes of my show, but she doesn’t say much. She’s a woman of few words.”

    Being a mommy is not as difficult than being pregnant working woman and she glads more about her condition.
    “In many ways, being pregnant and working were more difficult than motherhood. I’m just so happy right now to be married with a beautiful baby that it is impossible to complain — especially at my age. That said, I am sleep-deprived, exhausted, overworked — and I did have one good bawling breakdown over nonsense. I had no clue what to expect. It was like raising an animal in the wild.”

    Thinking of her husband as a sweet man is no doubt for a newlywed couple. How’s he in fatherhood?
    “My husband is incredible! He loves to interact with Bryn and have a purpose: He’s the burp master, diaper-changer, sponge-bather for the most part. Since I breastfeed, he wants to feel necessary. He is incredible. Zero disappointments. His heart is made of candy.”

    No competing between her and her daughter to steal the love of Jason, since “Jason loves us both so much. I think he loves how much she and I love each other.”

    And keep the romance in the air is something that she’s prepared since “no sex for two weeks. Jason is counting down as if it we’re an Advent calendar. Date night is cliche but important. I need to work on dressing as if I’m not in a garbage bag. It’s really bad. I’m an animal.”

    Having a baby definitely is a lovely changing in life. What would you say are the biggest changes in your life, from pre-baby to post-baby?
    “I find it hard to get in the shower before noon. I don’t have a single spare moment. I am often a few minutes late, which is beyond uncharacteristic. I sweat the small stuff a bit less. I’m calmer and nicer. I’m just a lot happier and more grateful.”