Appreciation for Housewife

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    This is a story about the woman as mother and wife which sometimes underestimate by man and others generally, for had the unsung job as housewife. It is bothered me a lot when the person, we shared the story  about this unsung job, responses with this careless answer, “Who told you so?”

    Woman having the baby sincerely,  but when the woman distress about her pregnancy to the man, the answer she got, “Who told you so to keep the baby?”

    Giving birth in any way, it is still painful.
    Again the man said, “Who told you so to have the baby?”

    The pain of giving birth has not gone away, the woman who became mother had to breastfeed and take care of herself, her baby and her husband.
    With the note: do not ever complain!
    When the woman complain, the man will be answered, “Who told you so to be a housewife?”

    Lack of sleep, lack of rest, they were asked what they did until the house is always in a mess?
    The woman were trying to explain that the child always ask pickaback, the baby needs attention.
    The man will not comforting, not help, and again only answer, “Who told you so to be a housewife?”

    Nine months resist the temptation of food,
    So the baby born healthy and beautiful.
    Years living with desultory body
    Survive with mediocre money, without any extra income
    No care of saggy breasts and fatty stomach.

    Cheering in negligee when the father of baby is promoted.
    Also present when entering new house for the family
    Pleased when owning the first family car
    Grinning but never ask for a part as their own benefit.

    Later in return, the woman already stigmatized by accusations of boring woman,
    Insulted like a slut
    Deliberately makes the woman look embarrassing.
    Then the man scratching for justification.
    Belie all the memories.

    Yes…
    We are the woman
    Far from perfection
    Not always gentle like an angel heaven

    As we hassles and lost patience
    We do not ask for payment.
    Just need the understanding with smile

    Can we, on top of what we did
    You give a little appreciation?

    A thousand night of sacrifice has gone
    When the man was bored.
    One mistake could end expulsion
    Nothing in the house, that belonged to the woman.

    Can blood and flesh back into youth?
    Oh yes I forgot …

    “Who told you so?”
    Thus the man said.
    Answered with a very deft.